Mary grew up in the Bay Area and has over 35 years-experience working with older adults at all ages and life stages and consulting for businesses serving Baby Boomers. Her expertise is in senior housing, care communities, senior and adult-day-care centers, senior nutrition and education programs, and now provides late-life transition and grief support to individuals and their families throughout the aging process. Her business experience includes organizational management, program development, marketing, community relations, and non-profit fundraising.
For over a decade, Mary also worked part-time as a parent advisor and family-centered care (FCC) educator at Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital at Stanford, where her son received his life-saving cardiac care. She partnered with parents, specialty clinics and healthcare teams to improve services, hospital processes and care outcomes. These team efforts ultimately resulted in robust, nationally recognized FCC programs that helped usher in a new era of family inclusion and improved healthcare outcomes in hospitals across the nation.
Through her years of education and personal experience, Mary’s compassion and insights have deepened, particularly as it relates to the unique issues of advanced aging, complex family dynamics, acute-care pediatrics, and the multi-faceted world of death and dying. In 2019, she became both a certified end-of-life doula and dementia care practitioner and has added grief coaching, healthcare advocacy, end-of-life education and planning to her service offerings.
Today, Mary sees herself as a Life-Transition Specialist, which encompasses support and guidance for people regardless of their ages or health status. She considers Beacon Light Doulas (BLD) as the next right step in her life-long career of caring for others. Along with her partners, they are building a unique company that offers compassionate services which are so greatly needed at this time. Through birth, life and death, BLD is there to partner with families, communities, businesses, care providers and the healthcare system, and encourage people to talk about what matters most to them, document their wishes and embrace both the living and the dying process with less fear and more understanding.
Beacon Light Doulas are experts in the delicate art of supporting individuals and their loved ones through significant life changes, specializing in late-life and end-of-life transitions.
We provide individualized resources and education, patient-centered healthcare advocacy and compassionate guidance through a broad spectrum of age-related challenges.
We help navigate difficult conversations, complex family dynamics, consequential health diagnoses, family relocations, aging in place, moving into assisted living, palliative care, hospice services, end-of-life planning and guidance through the last stages of life.
Our doulas are experienced and dedicated to providing the highest level of care. We've seen firsthand how proper guidance can transform this difficult journey into one filled with peace and respect. Our goal is to ensure that no one feels alone or unsupported during such a critical time.
Our passion stems from our belief that everyone deserves to spend their final days in comfort and dignity. We understand the emotional weight and stress that comes with caring for a loved one during this time, and we are committed to making this journey as peaceful as possible.
Remember, it's possible to find confidence and support in your role as a caregiver. With the right help, you can honor your loved one's legacy with grace and love. At Beacon Light Doulas, we're here to guide you every step of the way, ensuring that your loved one's final moments are filled with the dignity they deserve.
Beacon Light Doulas is the brain child of three women who have over 70 years of combined experience in expertly supporting individuals, families and care communities throughout life's biggest transitions. Mary Alden, Erica Falk and Elizabeth Wong dreamed of creating a collective of carers to service the rapidly growing senior population.
Just like our clients, Beacon Light Doulas has changed and evolved through it's own transitions over time!
Erica is now focused on supporting women through their pregnancies with a massage-first approach over at Calming Seas Healing.
Elizabeth has taken a pause from much of her work for now so she can spend time with her aging mother.
Mary Alden continues the Beacon Light Doulas mission with an unwavering passion to expand compassionate care to as many elder care facilities, EOL doulas, and families as possible. While you will still find Mary holding your mom's hand as she processes moving into assisted living, you will also find her at senior fairs, holding informative Q&A sessions, and providing staff training in elder care communities near you!
We're actively looking for carers who are curious about becoming an EOL doula and adding late life transition services to their repertoire. Get in touch and we'd love to help you find your next steps within the world of late life transitions through professional training and / or partnerships.
We compassionately support families and friends as they navigate the stages of planning, honoring, and caring for their most cherished loved ones through life’s greatest transitions.
Beacon Light Doulas provides compassionate end-of-life care, death doula services, and grief support for terminal illness and death at home.
We are SF Bay Area death doulas servicing San Jose, San Francisco, Pacifica, Santa Clara County, San Mateo County, Alameda County, Contra Costa County, Marin and San Francisco County